My family is originally from western North Carolina. Our home town is surrounded by the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains. People from all over the world come to see our mountains during the changing of the leaves in the fall season. Words just can't do justice to the splendor of the colorful canvas of orange, yellow, red, and brown trees that decorate the mountains. We are very proud of our mountains.
When I moved here I gained new perspective. Surrounding the valley where we live now are "mountains" that are the same height and similar shape to our mountains back in North Carolina. The people here, however, call these "mountains" hills. They will actually laugh at you if you call them mountains. Why? Because off into the distance behind these hills is a mountain range that towers high above these tiny mounds of dirt. The majestic white-capped giants are several miles away and still they dominate the hill area as if the hills were nothing more than tiny ant colonies.
It's time to gain a little perspective.
Psalm 36:1-2 "The transgression of the wicked saith within my heart, that there is no fear of God before his eyes. For he flattereth himself in his own eyes, until his iniquity be found to be hateful."
In man's own eyes, he is big. He is in control. He doesn't need to fear anyone, even God, because he flatters himself with the thoughts of how strong and powerful he is. He boasts and brags. He makes confident plans.
Psalm 36:3-4 "The words of his mouth are iniquity and deceit: he hath left off to be wise, and to do good. He deviseth mischief upon his bed; he setteth himself in a way that is not good; he abhorreth not evil."
He doesn't take thought of how little and weak and helpless he really is. He is like a tiny ant in an ant colony and yet he sees himself as Mount Everest. He imagines he is master of the universe. He is big... in his own eyes.
And then there is God...
Psalm 36:5-7 "Thy mercy, O LORD, is in the heavens; and thy faithfulness reacheth unto the clouds. Thy righteousness is like the great mountains; thy judgments are a great deep: O LORD, thou preservest man and beast. How excellent is thy lovingkindness, O God! therefore the children of men put their trust under the shadow of thy wings."
His mercy cannot be contained. His lovingkindness is immeasurable. His righteousness towers high above the works of men. His judgments are deeper than the ocean. His safety covers His children like the wing of a massive eagle casting a great shadow of safety over all those who trust in Him... all of them at one time. Our God is big. He is powerful. He is truly in control. And He is worthy of adoration and fear.
Imagine me looking down at a tiny ant hill and calling it a mountain. Imagine me boasting of its greatness and power and majesty. Then imagine me standing at the foot of Mount Everest. I can simply step on the ant hill and collapse its peak without any effort, and yet Mount Everest has only been scaled by a handful of people throughout history. It has claimed many lives in their attempt to reach its summit. Even the most skilled climbers respect the dangers the deadly high peak poses to its challengers.
Who are we to boast in ourselves and make confident plans? Who are we to flatter ourselves thinking we have power and control? We are but tiny ants totally dependent on His mercy, lovingkindness, righteousness, judgments, and protection. God is big and it is prudent for us to learn the fear of the Lord.
Sometimes ministry here can be really difficult. I am not talking about the hardships of living here. Yes, sometimes it is difficult because of physical hardships, but there are things we occasionally deal with that are even more difficult to endure emotionally and spiritually.
Just after the first major earthquake a few years ago, we learned quickly how difficult ministry can be. Though we experienced many things firsthand, we also heard stories of things other groups endured. One group went into a village to help build emergency shelters for earthquake victims. While that group was building, people from the village went through the group's vehicles and stole all their tools and supplies. The group was there to selflessly serve the people, and several of the people took advantage of them. I can't imagine the frustration and heartbreak. That group left the village. Another group, unaware of the previous situation, came in to build and the same thing happened to them.
One time when our group went into a village to help build emergency relief shelters, many people sat around watching them build. As our men worked, several men were mocking them and treating them poorly. Our men were serving and making a difference while others did nothing. Our group kept building and ignored them. They were not doing it for the people. They were building for the glory of the Lord. It was still heartbreaking.
When you pour your heart into serving others, it cuts deeply to have them take advantage of you or to have them show hatred or disdain for you when you love them and want to help.
David knew what that was like.
Psalm 35:13-16 "But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom. I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother. But in mine adversity they rejoiced, and gathered themselves together: yea, the abjects gathered themselves together against me, and I knew it not; they did tear me, and ceased not: With hypocritical mockers in feasts, they gnashed upon me with their teeth."
When David's enemies were in need, David had compassion. He mourned, prayed, fasted, and treated his enemies like friends and brothers. Then his enemies rewarded him with mockery, false accusations, and cruelty.
David did not retaliate. He didn't seek revenge. How did David get through such heartbreak and difficulty with his enemies? How could he endure such treatment?
One day as our group of men worked building shelters, men sat around mocking them. Our guys continued working. Then suddenly, a young woman grabbed some of the supplies and started helping. They showed her how she could help, and she worked as hard as any of our men. It put to shame the men sitting around doing nothing. It also encouraged our group.
When people you try to serve do not treat you with the kindness and compassion you showed them, remind yourself that you do what you do for God's glory, not for their appreciation or reciprocation. Continue to love your enemies, do good to them, and pray for them. Let God fight the battle with them because it is an issue of their hearts. Learn to rejoice in those who love righteousness and treat you with kindness. Don't waste your time stewing over those who live to bring you low.
I love parties. I love attending parties and throwing parties. I love the games, the fellowship, the food, and the entertainment of parties. I love the festivities. I love throwing theme parties the best!
I hosted the July Fourth party this year. The theme was Freedom. I set up "breakout/escape" rooms with fun clues to open a lock. That was one of the funnest parties I have ever hosted.
But I have to confess that sometimes I throw terrible, ungodly parties. I am not talking about parties with beer or parties with worldly music and such. These parties I throw, though, are carnal and are wicked. I hate it when I realize I have thrown one of those parties. It breaks my heart even more when I realize I have sent out invitations to those parties. (If I send you an invitation to those parties, please respectfully decline to attend.)
Every day, you and I send out invitations to one of two parties. We may not realize we do it. Both parties have the same theme: praise.
The first party has self at the center. When we boast of our accomplishments and talents, we send out an invitation for people to come to a party to praise us.
The second party has the Jesus as the focal point. When we give Him the glory He is due, we send out an invitation for people to join us in praising Him. You know who will attend the second party? Humble people who love the Lord. They love those parties!
Psalm 34:2 "My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together."
When you hear me say, "To God be the glory," I have just sent you an invitation to a Praise Him party. Join me! Let's exalt Him together.
It's one of those mornings.
Have you ever had one of those mornings where it seems like the harder you try to be a help, the more you mess things up? (Enter pity party.)
I got out of bed this morning with a flourish. I was ready to start my long list of things that needed to be done. I wanted to be a good help to my husband so the first thing I did was I turned on the electric heater. I wanted him to have a warm room to wake up in. Then I rushed downstairs and turned on the iron to iron his clothes. I then decided while the iron was heating up I would make his coffee. I put water in the electric kettle and turned it on. I grabbed the slow cooker out of the fridge and put it on the counter. It had our lunch in it. I plugged it in to get it started. Then I realized my husband had coffee in his thermos I could heat in the microwave so he could have one cup of coffee quickly. I poured the coffee in his favorite cup and pitched it into the microwave. I turned the microwave on... and suddenly power went out throughout the house. In my flurry of helpfulness, I didn't realize how many electrical appliances I had turned on. I overloaded our electrical system. The husband I had been trying to help now had to spend time fixing the problem I made. I felt terrible.
While my husband was trying to fix my mess, I sat down to do my devotions. In my discouragement, I flipped to Psalm 34, then prayed.
"Lord, I need something this morning. I feel awful. I created more work for my husband even though I was trying to help him. Please give me something from your Word, not just to teach others, but to help me."
When I finished praying, I looked down and read.
Psalm 34:1 "... I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth."
Immediately I knew that verse was exactly what I needed. Here I was trying to wallow in my pity party pool, and the Spirit of God was showing me I needed to praise the Lord instead. He is worthy of our praise even when things don't go according to our plans. He is worthy of our worship and devotion even when things seem to be falling apart. He is worthy at all times. I don't have time for pity parties.
"But, Lord, how do I switch gears from pity party to praise party?"
I read a little more.
Psalm 34:2-3 "My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together."
We leave the pity party and enter the praise party when we get our eyes of off self and get our eyes back on Him. The guest of honor at a pity party is me! The guest of honor at a praise party is the Lord.
Yes, there are times when we have good intentions and honorable plans that don't work out. We have a choice in our response: pity party or praise party.
This morning I entered the pity party, but called out to Him.
Psalm 34:4 "I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears."
I like this new party much better. The Guest of honor certainly is more worthy!