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Road Schooling...on the road of life
  • The Christmas Critter
    A fun, Christ-centered alternative to the popular Elf on the Shelf concept. A Gospel focused, fruitful approach to the countdown to Christmas.
  • The Christmas Critter: Clyde
    Join Clyde as he has adventures and mishaps in his search for the true meaning of Christmas!
  • The Christmas Critter - Pack 2
    Create your own character with a unique name in this pack, and follow his journey of building godly character as his excitement for Christmas grows.
  • The Christmas Critter - Super Hero Pack
    Your Christmas Critter wants to be a superhero for Christmas, but he just isn't sure which super power he wants. Some super powers are just too much for him to handle!
  • Scripture References
    All Scripture references are taken from the King James version of the Bible.

We live in a noisy city. One of the noisiest things they do is honk their vehicle horns constantly. They honk to let you know they are passing. They honk to let you know they aren't stopping. They honk to let you know they are going to pull out in front of you. Sometimes I think they honk just for the fun of it. They recently passed a law restricting honking. There are "No Horn" zones where you are not allowed to honk at all. In the rest of the city, the rule is only honk for emergency. I bet you are wondering how the law is working...

Well, the city is somewhat quieter... relatively... sort of. There is less honking, but that's like saying there are less fish in the ocean because you caught a few. People are addicted to their horns and everyone is used to them. The horn is a simple, yet often annoying, way of saying, "Hey, look at me!"

Have you ever heard the phrase "tooting your own horn"? It comes from the days of heralds when there was a horn blower sent before someone to announce the arrival of someone important. Tooting your own horn is when you arrogantly draw attention to yourself by bragging or boasting. But tooting ones own horn goes farther back in history, too. In Matthew 6, Jesus taught about people tooting their own horn. When the people would give alms for the poor, sometimes they would blow a trumpet to get people to look and see what they were doing. They wanted people to see how gracious and giving... and rich... they were to give so generously. And then there were those that stood on street corners and prayed out loud so that everyone would hear how spiritual they were. Their own voices became their horns. Jesus said for us to stop tooting our own horns and do things in secret.

But the horn thing goes back even farther.

Psalm 75:4-7 "I said unto the fools, Deal not foolishly: and to the wicked, Lift not up the horn: Lift not up your horn on high: speak not with a stiff neck. For promotion cometh neither from the east, nor from the west, nor from the south. But God is the judge: he putteth down one, and setteth up another."

This horn wasn't one to be tooted or blown, but the heart of the matter is the same root problem of the heart! This is talking about an animal horn. Have you ever seen a deer with a huge rack on his head? He regally lifts it up by straightening and stiffening his neck for everyone to see the majestic nature of his stately antlers. His "horns" are his beauty, his power, and his crown. Speaking of crowns, do you know what animal horns were used for in the Old Testament?

1 Samuel 16:1 "... fill thine horn with oil, and go, I will send thee to Jesse the Bethlehemite: for I have provided me a king among his sons."

The horn was filled with oil to anoint the king! It was lifted up above the chosen man's head and poured over him. Psalm 75 is saying, "Don't stiffen your neck in pride and lift your own horn of oil over your own head and anoint yourself!" This passage even declares this attitude, this pride and arrogance, to be the behavior of fools and of the wicked.

And here comes the "ouch".

How often do we do things to be seen?
How often do we show off things we have done so that we can receive the praise of people?
How often do we post our accomplishments on Facebook so that people see our beautiful, majestic "horns" on our head?

Let me make it even more personal:
How often do I share my completed to-do list so that people will see how awesome I am?
How often do I show off my spiritual opinions and counsel and wisdom so that people will think highly of me?
How often do I share "How I do it" and set myself up as an example for others to follow?
How often do I, even in an outward seemingly humble manner, try to exalt myself so that I teach a class, lead a group, lead a devotion time for ladies, etc?
(Just being honest!)

If we are in Christ, we live in a "no honking zone". We ought not draw attention to ourselves. We ought not try to volley for position. God is the one who sets up and God is the one who removes leaders. We need to soften our necks and humble our hearts. We need to bow the heart and knee to the real King, the Lord Jesus. We need to stop anointing ourselves, and we need to start pointing to Him.

Galatians 6:14 "But God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world."